Learn To Enjoy Your Bacon

Imagine being a young boy and having to constantly explain everyday of your life why

you look different, be excluded because you look different and pointed and

stared at everywhere you go. That is life for this boy and others who have a

rare skin disorder called Pityriasis Rubra Pilaris (PRP). PRP is a chronic rare

skin disorder characterized by reddish orange color of the skin, scaling and

flaky skin that is perceived by the average person to be a severe sunburn.

Meet my cousin Coleton. Who by the way, is one of the most beautiful people with the

biggest heart I know. Let me paint a picture for you of Coleton’s everyday life

on vacation.

On vacation with Coleton, you will quickly discover how judgmental people can be.

Walk in to a room with him and you will hear “put some sun screen on that

boy,” or “Gosh, don’t you know the sun burns? Use some aloe

vera.” Or just judgmental looks.

Coleton has the biggest heart of just about anyone I know. He sustains a positive

attitude and never has a complaint. Hes’ super chill, and an all around awesome person

to be around. Talk to him for five minutes and you will instantly be in a

better mood. He’s simply happy, and comfortable in his own skin. Three life lessons

I have learned from Coleton:

Stop being so judgmental:

James4:11

Do not speak evil against one another, brothers. The one who speaks against a brother

or judges his brother, speaks evil against the law and judges the

law. If you judge the law, you are not a does of the law but a judge. There is

only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy.

Everyone has a story you may not understand. Maybe that overweight woman has a thyroid disorder;

maybe she is suffering from depression or loneliness. Maybe she needs a friend.

Or maybe your assumptions are correct and she is lazy, and doesn’t care what

she eats. But guess what, its her body, why care? Maybe she is comfortable in

her own skin, and loves her body. Learn to love yourself, and maybe you’ll love

her too.

That young lady at Church every Sunday who is always in a short shirt and super low

cut shirt..Maybe she doesn’t know any better? Or maybe she needs attention, like

a friend. But sometimes we are too busy judging to talk to her and figure out

her story. If we spent more time praying for people and less time talking about

them the world would be better.

Love yourself

Ever notice how some times the most beautiful people are often the most insecure?

Why?

Tall, short, fat, skinny, black, white, purple…Whatever, its beautiful, you’re beautiful

We were

made in his image (Genesis 1:26-27)

We should love our bodies because we were made in his image and we are perfect. He loved

us so much that he sent his only son to be crucified and save us from our sins

(John 3:16), yet we complain about our thighs being too wide, our hair being

too thin, our smile being crooked or often just plain hate our bodies. When

really we should be comfortable. We are perfect, just the way we are. Happiness

and confidence is attractive and can be contagious. When we love ourselves, it’s

easy for us to love others. I believe this is a small step in changing the

world.

1 Peter 3: 3-4

Do not let your adorning be external- the braiding of your hair and putting on of gold

jewelry, or the clothing you wear- but let your adorning be the hidden person

of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which

in Gods sight is very precious.

Let things go

(Ephesians

4: 31-32)

Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you,

along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one

another, as God in Christ forgave you. 

 

Today at breakfast, some man came up to Coleton and told him he needed to wear more

sunscreen, and asked why he was so burnt, another man told him to use aloe

vera. I was frustrated, and just about to go off ( I am currently working on my

patience, and I am super protective when it comes to family.. work in progress

) and I was probably a little more rude than I should have been to the man.

When the man walked away, I asked Coleton, “don’t you get so sick of that?

I just don’t understand people” and he simply smiled and said, “It

gets really old, but right now, its just me and this bacon that matters.”

Wouldn’t life be so much easier and enjoyable if we had the mentality that he has? If we learned to shrug things off and just enjoy our bacon?

For more information about Coleton and his daily struggles and positivity check out his pagehttp://blog.why-im-red.com/2009/10/11/welcome.aspx

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